Our Guide: Bon Dances for Beginners

Here’s what to do, eat and see at these traditional Japanese celebrations happening on O‘ahu this summer.

June 1, 2023

Christi Young,

Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in May 2019, but has been updated with the latest information.

The Jikoen Hongwanji / Photo: Courtesy of Luke Takayama

Summer in Hawai‘i usually brings in an abundance of three things: Mango, lychee and Obon festivals (and therefore, bon dances). These family-friendly celebrations held across the state are a Japanese tradition, welcoming ancestors who have come back to visit and celebrating life for those still on earth.

Festivals feature tons of food and, of course, a big group bon dance. The entire community is welcome to join in on the fun—you don’t have to be Buddhist. For first-timers and those who haven’t been to an Obon festival, or those who haven’t participated in a bon dance in so long that they’re practically newbies, the idea of joining the crowd of experienced dancers can be intimidating. So we asked Derek Iwata, former education specialist at the Japanese Cultural Center of Hawai‘i, for his tips on how to enjoy Obon festivals on O‘ahu.

Obon Festival & Bon Dance Tips

Find a seat or set up your portable chairs when you first arrive. Iwata says most temples have seating areas for spectators but often do not have enough chairs for everyone.
Attend a practice. Want to dance? Iwata says temples usually do a run-through before the dance night. It’s an opportunity for everyone in the family to see what will happen and become familiar with the moves in a less intimidating setting.
Ask before you jump in. At a bon dance, find an experienced dancer and follow his or her lead. But note, Iwata says, before you cut into the line, it is polite to ask the person behind the spot if it is okay.
Don’t stop moving. Even if you get confused, keep walking with the line. Sudden stops can mess up the person behind you.
Wear comfortable clothing and covered shoes. Any attire goes these days. If you want to find traditional outfits for the family, Iwata suggests checking the Japanese Cultural Center of Hawai‘i gift shop in Mōili‘ili, Marukai on Kamehameha Highway in Kalihi and Sanki in Pearl City.
Check out all the different snacks. You can usually find shave ice, spam musubi and fried noodles to please the kids. But many bon dances serve other items too. Keep an eye out for snacks best eaten fresh at these events, including andagi, a fried Okinawan treat with the texture of a dense doughnut, KC waffle hot dogs and various mochi.
Looking for the most kid-friendly bon dance? Iwata suggests the Mō‘ili‘ili Summer Festival, scheduled for Saturday, July 1, this year. The annual event features children’s games and activities, food trucks and crafters.